‘拉手’ literally combines ‘拉’ (to pull, to draw) and ‘手’ (hand), forming a verb meaning ‘to hold hands’. It describes the physical act of two or more people grasping each other’s hands, often as a gesture of affection, support, guidance, or unity. Unlike formal or literary expressions, ‘拉手’ is neutral in register and commonly used in everyday spoken and written Chinese — especially in contexts involving children, couples, friends, or caregivers helping others.

The phrase is typically transitive and requires a direct object (e.g., ‘拉他的手’), though the object may be omitted if context makes it clear. It does not imply romantic exclusivity; it can express tenderness between parents and children, solidarity among friends, or simple assistance across age groups. It is rarely used in formal documents or business settings, but appears frequently in stories, dialogues, instructions for young learners, and descriptions of daily interactions.